I finished my last final this morning! I am done taking classes on campus at the University of Iowa. It feels good. In roughly two and half weeks I will leave for Strasbourg, France to begin my adventure as an au pair. The family I will be living with is originally from Greece. Their jobs took them to Strasbourg, where they currently live with their two daughters.
My job will be to watch the girls speak English with them, help with homework, take them to their activities, etc. The two girls are the same age as two of my little sisters which will be nice because that means there will be no diapers, they have a very good grasp of English already because all of their other au pairs spoke English as well, they will be able to help me with my nonexistent French.
I guess I should answer a lot of the common questions I have been getting:
1. Why do I want to be an au pair?
I first found out about au pairs through my dad during my freshman year of college. We had been discussing my being restless and wanting to travel. Since then I have played around with the idea. I almost became an au pair for a family in Switzerland, and by almost I mean I had bought the ticket and had my visa. But things fell through, probably for the best. I have always loved to travel and as the daughter of a "self-declared" Francophile it's really no surprise that my first trip overseas was with my best friends to France. I fell in love, how typical! I would like to experience French culture first hand, I would love to learn the language, and I really enjoy being around children, so hopefully being an au pair will be perfect for me.
2. Why are you going to France if you don't speak French?
Well I love France....and I really wish I knew French. I am very nervous about not knowing the language. I will be taking French courses, it's required by French law for au pairs. I will keep you updated on that whole situation.
3. What is the living situation going to be like?
The family lives in an apartment and in the top floor of the apartment buildings are studios. They own one of the studios and that's where I will be staying. It's just one room but it will be my own space where I can relax when I need to by myself. I will have a key to their apartment and I will be able to go down there whenever to watch t.v. eat my meals, etc.
4. Are you nervous?
I think that just in general I am nervous about the whole experience. I know a lot of people go overseas as an au pair and expect something totally different than what they end up getting. I have been trying to be realistic with my expectations of the job, the family, the culture shock. Whenever I travel I always get very nervous right before and worry about whether or not I am making the right decision but I have yet to regret a trip *knock on wood*. Also my visa still hasn't arrived haha go figure,thank you French bureaucracy. My flight leaves in two and a hald weeks, hopefully I will be on it.
5. Will you get homesick?
Before my trips I always think that there is no way I will be homesick. I love to travel, I like airports (except for the Miami one where mice were scampering around), wandering around makes me happy, I enjoy my being alone. Then almost immediately after I leave I get dreadfully homesick. I constantly think oh wow mom would like this, dad told me about this, the kids would die if they saw this, and with such a huge family it wears on me. So yes I know I will be homesick, there's no avoiding it I suppose.
Hopefully I get my visa soon!